Life’s a beach. Take a vacation: To my top 10 favorite places.

I have recently completed all 50 states and what better way to celebrate(a little late) than to write about my top 10 favorite cities. One of the main questions I get is “What’s your top 10 favorite states you’ve been to?” or “Where should I go for my next vacation?” I, unfortunately can’t rank my top 10 favorite states but I certainly can list my favorite cities I’ve been too.

I want to point out that a couple of these rankings are a little biased for personal reasons and even if you don’t know me and are just stopping by to read my blog, you most likely will be able to spot them right away. 🙂

10. La Crosse, Wisconsin.

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I feel as if I’d be cheating if I didn’t put my hometown but I will put it as #10. It’s not like someone saying they have a cute baby when it’s actually ugly because they have to.

My hometown is actually amazingly beautiful. We have the river, bluffs and booze and that’s a combination for something spectacular. I’m just going to list off recommendations for all walks of life especially if you’ve never made the trip to Sconnie.

We have some pretty great hiking here, sometimes I even forget about how fortunate we are to have some of the trails we have. Hixton Forest up to Grandad’s Bluff is the most popular and when you get to the top you’ll capture a breathtaking view of La Crosse, the river and the surrounding areas. You can’t forget about Apple Blossom; just over the river in La Crescent, Minnesota or Perrot State Park 30 min north in Trempealeau, Wisconsin.

If you know anything about the Midwest or Wisconsin in general; you know that we do like to tip a few back here and there. Downtown La Crosse is great for adults and La Crosse has done a great job with keeping it historic. John’s Bar and The Helm are welcoming hole in the wall taverns with even more hospitable bartenders. If the party scene is more your style you would be silly to miss out on La Crosse’s Oktoberfest. 1,000’s of people from all over the world make the trek to drink with the best of them, wear lederhosen and chomp down brat after brat.

Last but not least you can’t go to Wisconsin and not try CHEESE CURDS. Pettibone Boat Club is the perfect place to relax by the river, sip Pina Coladas and eat not only mozzarella cheese curds but pepperjack as well. If off the beaten path is a little more your thing than River Rats is just the ticket, and if you’re going to get the cheese curds than you might as well splurge and try the duck wings too because those are equally as delicious BUT if you are the weird of the weird and hate anything regarding water; circling back downtown La Crosse; Dublin Square also has phemonimal cheese curds(the Reuben Rolls are just as bomb too)

https://www.oktoberfestusa.com

https://www.explorelacrosse.com/visitor-guide/

http://www.pettiboneboatclub.com

https://dublinsquarepub.com

 

9. Boston, Massachusetts

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This is a city that I am even surprised is on my list. I will be the first to admit; I am the last person to enjoy a big city, especially THAT big. I am completely in awe of history and Boston is FULL of it. Whether it being; checking out the Boston Tea Party Ship & Museum or getting goosebumps at the Holocaust memorial it definitely doesn’t lack the bygone days or charm.

If more recent history is more your thing, Boston has two different locations of the hit sitcom “Cheers.” One location is on Beacon Hill where Cheers was actually inspired and the other (which is the one I prefer) is a replica in Fanueil Hall. Both come with iconic Cheers bar napkins, pint glasses and of course the classic gift shops.

After attending the location at Fanueil Hall, take a walk down the street; no matter at night or during the day you will find street performers at every intersection. I’malso not talking about street performers like you’ve seen on the Vegas street. The street performers in Boston are simply artistic.

Just one more tidbit: Boston Pubs are one of a kind: but just like the traffic; Boston sports fans are….in a light word, a little crazy.

https://cheersboston.com

https://faneuilhallmarketplace.com

https://www.bostonusa.com

8.Seattle, Washington

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I know I mentioned in my #9 city that I wasn’t a fan of big cities but I do want to let most of you know that the rest of the cities that I will be mentioning absolutely do not feel like big cities and all have a small town feel.

It brings me to Seattle; to be completely honest I thought Seattle’s history was the most intriguing in the country.  Mostly because if I am interested in anything other than traveling: it’s ghosts. If you can’t find a ghost tour in Seattle you are completely blind. The ghost tours are not just “haunted houses” they are JAM PACKED with history and interesting history at that. My favorite historic bar was called “The Merchants Cafe and Saloon” with a full bar when you walk in and a spooky dungeon bar in the basement is the right amount of history and fun. Especially since it’s Seattle’s Oldest Bar/Restaurant & the 5th most haunted bar in the United States.

My last recommendation of Seattle is by far the most important. It’s also one of the most magical, invigorating and life changing experiences of my life. Only an hour drive from Seattle you’ll find a sleepy little bay town called Anacortes. Get swept away on a enchanting little road into the tall pines and you’ll find Predators of the Heart. A wolf rescue with over 30 wolves, among those wolves you’ll find two celebrity wolves(Max and Kakoa) who have been featured on Game of Thrones and True Blood. This pair are full of kisses and howls and everything you could ever want in life. Notonly do take these two on a walk but they have cougars, linx’s and many types of birds. They even have a skunk to cuddle with. 🙂

https://www.visitseattle.org

http://merchantscafeandsaloon.com

https://predatorsoftheheart.com

7. Oahu, Hawaii

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Looking at my list this is only 1 out of 2 tropical, beachy places I have listed on here and for good reason. When I went to Hawaii I had extremely low expectations, mainly because I don’t like to consider myself as a tourist and that’s what Hawaii seemed like to me. It is once in a blue moon that I prove myself wrong but I did just that. 😉 Hawaii is basically like another planet, everywhere you turn their is a new tree, waterfall or mountain to explore. I also “puddle jumped” to Maui and rented a convertible to ride the Road to Hana and that has been one of the most fulfilling experiences of my life. So that’s highly recommended as well. However, I have Oahu listed and my trip to Maui deserves a blog to itself.

I know this won’t be for everyone reading this but one of my favorite things on the Island of Oahu was Waikiki Beach. Touristy but still a must do, instead of just hanging on the beach all day I do urge you to take one of the “booze cruises.” A catamaran will take you out to the waters of Waikiki, along with 30-40 other people, all you can drink rum punch and the best party tunes money can buy. I also want to mention that one of these rides cost a whopping $45 and it’s well worth it.

Another thing I would highly recommend is checking out The North Shore. If you came to Hawaii to check out the surfing community; you got a surfing community. The beaches are a little less crowded than Waikiki and if you’re there you might as well book a surfing lesson(check out Airbnb.) Surfing North Shore is a bucket list experience in itself.

https://www.gohawaii.com/islands/oahu

https://roadtohana.com/

https://www.maitaicatamaran.com/sunset-sail.htm

6. Key West, Florida

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The newest of my favorite places on my list and I’m talking as new as you can get considering I’m sitting in Key West as I type. I’ve never been huge on Florida after I turned 18. In my opinion it all kind of looks the same, with the same bars and beaches BUT Key West changed my mind completely. The Keys in general are overall amazing.

A flight to Miami is awfully cheap(depending on where you are located of course) and if you haven’t road tripped from Miami to Key West I without a doubt would at least experience it once. It’s actually rating one of the best routes in the states.

I tend to look for any experiences that relate with animals and The Key West Butterfly and Nature Conservatory is phenomenal and also won’t break the bank. They have butterflies from all over the world with all different colors and even a couple flamingos. I can’t stress this enough but it’s a MUST DO. I could sit there all day.

If you haven’t picked up on this from other posts I’ve written about, I like to have a cocktail or two(or 7). Anyway, Jimmy Buffett describes Key West in all of his songs to a T. It is really one of the most laid-back places I’ve ever been and if youfind just the right bar you’ll want to stay there all day. I particularly enjoyed Hog’s Breath. I also urge you to rent a moped. Streets are narrow and there is absolutely no parking.

https://www.keywestbutterfly.com

https://www.hogsbreath.com

https://keywest.com

5.New Orleans, Louisiana

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If you are looking for a unique city and beyond astounding food. New Orleans is a MUST. Between Louisiana cajun creole, muffalettas and beignets you really can’t go wrong and I crave these foods, not exaggerating; every single day. The streets are narrow, cobbled and filled with street performers in the evenings and filled with day drinkers and musicians during the day.

I, personally, am a big fan of  learning about new religions and new spiritual ways of thinking so the Voodoo culture of New Orleans has had me astounded each and every time I’ve visited. Although somewhat touristy; Marie Laveau’s House of Voodoo is my one recommendation for a Voodoo culture stop. They have a ton of history in one little building and have tarrot card readings which also is pretty fascinating. I would also recommend Reverend Zombie’s House of Voodoo for a little more of an authentic feel.

If food is what you’re looking for I highly recommend swinging by the Central Grocery and Deli on Decatur St. for a muffaletta and any other goodies. It’s also a short walk from the Mississippi so sitting on a bench while watching barges and boats go by is also a nice free thing to do. I also recommend Acme Oyster House for Seafood of any kind ESPECIALLY the Oyster Rockefeller.

https://www.neworleans.com

https://acmeoyster.com

https://voodooneworleans.com

https://centralgrocery.com

 

4.Nashville, Tennessee

This is one out of two cities on my list that I cannot do it justice by just typing out a synopsis on it. The feeling you get when you go to Nashville is a feeling I’ve only had a couple of times and the best way I can describe it is; an at home feeling. I could possibly be biased but most everyone I’ve talked to that has witnessed the joys of Nashville has felt the same.

#1 tourist and traveler thing to do is visit Broadway St. in downtown Nashville. I also cannot describe the mood or the vibe when walking down the covered brick building street other than amazingness. You’ll run into celebrity bars such as; Ole’ Red, The Luke Bryan Bar and AJ’s Good Time Bar but the most surprising of them all was Kid Rock’s Big HonkyTonk Rock N’ Roll Steakhouse. Not that it’s difficult to find fantastic bands in Nashville but every band there was incredible. Not only that; the vibe matched. The bartenders are attentive and full of energy which is always a plus.(actually more than a plus)

If food is what you’re looking for I cannot suggest enough to make the 30 minute drive to Loveless Cafe right outside of Nashville. I know I’m going to get some slack for this; but I am absolutely not a breakfast person but with biscuits like Loveless’ you can’t not be a breakfast person.(My mom said they were the best she’s ever had soooo) The cafeis straight out of diner heaven and also have cute little shops with delicious jam and goodies.

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Other honorable mentions: Country Music Hall of Fame, Ryman Auditorium and Tooties.

https://www.lovelesscafe.com

https://www.kidrockshonkytonkandsteakhouse.com

https://www.visitmusiccity.com

3. Bar Harbor, Maine

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If you asked me what my favorite state of all 50 states is, I, without a hesitation would tell you it’s Maine. Hands down. Even though Bar Harbor is my favorite city in Maine I do have to take you to another place in this rundown.

Although touristy; Bar Harbor is a charming small town in northern Maine just shy of Acadia National Park (my personal favorite park.) If you love shopping and good food, definitely make the stop in Bar Harbor. I particularly suggest Stewman’s Lobster Pound, you can pop a squat at a picnic table down on the dock or sit indoors. It’s also a great place to watch the tides come and go and they have some fabulous local brews(if you don’t try a blueberry beer there or in Maine, you are missing out). Another tip is Bar Harbor has multiple extraordinary rock shops so make sure you check those out too.

Another delightful town is York, Maine. I actually got teary eyed the first time I drove through it because of how lovely and Americana it was. It’s seriously out of a Nicholas Sparks novel; complete with a beach and a lighthouse in the distance.

To be honest; anywhere you go in Maine is going to be lovely, delightful, picturesque and pleasant. The rocky coast with lines of pine trees is definitely not an eye sore.

https://www.stewmanslobsterpound.com

https://www.visitbarharbor.com

 

2. Savannah, Georgia

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MAGICAL MAGICAL MAGICAL.  I can’t even say this enough and I can’t do this place enough justice. Everything about this town is picturesque and perfect. This is one of my main suggestions when people ask me where they should go. For multiple reasons:

Wormsloe Historic Site: This place is the most magical and majestic place I’ve ever been. I, for some reason have a big fascination and love for trees, it’s actually kind of odd but whether you find trees interesting or not; this place is really like a dream. Lined with oaks and spanish moss, a stroll down this road is the ultimate zen and relaxing place to be.

You can drink on the cobblestoned streets: Enough said.

Savannah is also a great hub for most anything you want to do whether it be hang out by the river or relax by the beach. It’s also only a 3-4 hour drive to Myrtle Beach or Atlanta.(opposite directions) and a 2 hour drive to Charleston.

I know this overview is one of the shorter ones but you really have to go there to experience how amazing, miercoles and beautiful this place is.

https://www.visitsavannah.com

https://gastateparks.org/Wormsloe

1. Deadwood, South Dakota

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This is my #1 and my most biased of all. My biased comes from going on family vacations 4 years in a row and ending up wanting to be a cowgirl and marry Wild Bill Hickok but unfortunately my dreams of that never came true and I still visit Deadwood at least once a year as an adult.

This has been one of my main recommendations for family vacations. I think western South Dakota is completely underrated and no matter if you’re taking the fam or going solo, this part of our beautiful U.S of A has something to do for everyone.

Two things about Deadwood I love is: Saloon #10 and Forks, Corks and Kegs. Saloon #10 is the most unique bar I’ve ever had a chance of walking into and it comes equipped with everything wild west; including floors filled with sawdust, saloon girls and even a reenactment of the assassination of Wild Bill. Most of the bartenders have been employed there for 10+ years so the service is also suburb.

Forks, Corks and Kegs is a festival that Deadwood throws once a year during the first weekend of April and I make the 12 hour drive to attend every year. $75 dollars gets you into 2 days of bar-hopping; trying wines, beers, liquors and of course; moonshine. At each bar stop on Friday and Saturday they have exquisite foods to taste test. Following the bar hop, the Deadwood Mountain Grand throws a end of the festival party with snacks and around 70 vendors throwing samples of: beer, wine and liquor to try your way.

I want to stress that western South Dakota has so much more to do other than Historic Deadwood. Mount Rushmore and Crazy Horse monuments are also short drives and a trip to South Dakota wouldn’t be right if you didn’t drive through The Badlands.

Other honorable mentions: Bear Country USA, Wall Drug and Flintstone Village.

https://www.saloon10.com/

https://www.deadwood.com/event/forks-corks-kegs/

That’s a wrap.

Corn, Farmers and Busch Lattes.

I have been somewhat flip flopping on writing this particular post. I actually had it written once before when I was pretty upset and I’m glad I deleted the draft and started over. 🙂 Last night a friend from 20 years ago (that I haven’t talked to much since) talked to me about going through a recent break-up and just wanted to chat about it. Since my traveling endeavors started, this happens quite frequently but this one resinated with me and I felt the need to write about something a little off the subject of just traveling.

4 things you need to know about me…

  1. I’m the most spontaneous person you’ll ever meet and thrive off new challenges.
  2. I absolutely love being single, actually I like to consider myself somewhat the epitome of it.
  3. I get homesick as F
  4. I’m absolutely in love with love.

If you didn’t catch on to the list, they all completely contradict each other.

If you don’t know me or didn’t know, I recently accomplished going to every single state in the United States. Also, if you have not read past blog posts, I started this challenge after getting a divorce, getting depressed and needing to find myself..yada yada. So when I completed this after only 2 years, I felt like I needed to find another challenge. Which brings me to Iowa…

My reason for flip flopping on writing this post is because most of my blog posts are personal and involve another person. I have no guilt writing about my ex-husband because ultimately he sucks but writing about someone else is a little different.

I want to give somewhat of a backstory on this situation. I met this guy from Iowa, 2 years ago (right around when I started my adventure of completing 50 states) in my most favorite town in the United States; Deadwood, South Dakota. Long story short, him and I kept in contact the entire 2 years and when I felt it was time to finally visit him in Iowa, I did and me being in love with love completely fell in love with the “love story” of it and not what it actually was.

Not even joking, it wasn’t even 2 weeks after I finished my goal of going to all 50 states, I moved to Iowa. There’s a lot of reasons I thought this was right at the time. A. The guy B. The town was IDENTICAL to my hometown so I felt a little less homesick and C. And probably the biggest reason, I felt completely lost and I NEEDED a new challenge. I have never moved anywhere before and it was the next big thing for me other than flying overseas.

Well, my spontaneous attitude and my tendency of rushing into shit sometimes is my downfall because all in all, the guy and I didn’t work out. I want to be honest and say that this was just like 3 days after I moved to Iowa and I was out for the count after. I couldn’t remember a time since my divorce I had felt so down and I completely assured myself that I had traveled and re-gained my independence for nothing. Which like all my blogs, brings myself to the moral of why I’m writing this.

I’d be lying if I said even after a month of being here, I’m not still super bummed it didn’t work out, however, I’m SO GLAD I moved here. How does this resinate with the girl I talked about before? I think the most vital time to do an awesome thing in your life is when you’re going through a catastrophic event, us as humans become so content with our routine life and when we go through something like a break-up, it’s the fire under ass, if you will, to challenge ourselves into doing something different and ultimately we learn a ton about ourselves.

So what did I learn for myself? Never stop rushing into new challenges but stop rushing into relationships.

Even though I deleted my original mean-hearted blog post the message does remain the same. All dudes suck.

 

 

 

 

 

There’s Freedom in a Broken Heart

In Spring 2014: 2 things happened; I had found an artist named Kacey Musgraves and somehow stumbled upon a Discovery channel documentary called North America. I had always had some interest in traveling but nothing worth doing anything about, other than pinning neat scenery here and there.

If you are unfamiliar with Kacey Musgraves, she sings about traveling, heartbreak and smoking weed. Somewhat the female version of Willie Nelson. Anyway, I had bought her CD and found a track called “My House” which basically is about traveling the USA in a RV.

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If you are unfamiliar with North America. It is a spin off of Frozen Planet or Planet Earth. I also think I’ve re-watched it 12 times. It goes from state to state with amazing camera-ship(I think I just made up that word) showing the wonders of America from National Parks to the animals in them.

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Fast forward to Winter 2014/2015. Someone very important to me at the time re-entered my life. I remember the exact bar and even table we were sitting at when I told him I had this new found wonder to jump in the car, travel the United States, work odd jobs and become a Gypsy. I also remember his exact words. “That’s the dumbest thing I’ve ever heard and I can’t see you anymore if that’s what you want to do with your life” Unfortunately this person’s opinion meant a lot to me and if I can give ANY words of advice. Screw what people think and don’t let anyone hold you back (especially a dude.) But I ended up just dropping it.

Inevitably, we could never get along. He started dating someone else. I was heartbroken. It brings me to the title of this blog; by Miranda Lambert “Happiness ain’t prison but there’s freedom in a broken heart”

I took my first solo trip to Colorado and this is where I can confidently say, this is where my life changed. I can still look at this picture and not be sure if I’ve ever been happier.

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Also, inevitably, Bozo and I (all names are changed) got back together soon after this trip. I sometimes look at this time period and the time period leading up to when I married this man and wonder if I regret it…but I really don’t but I’ll get into that later.

Now fast forward to May 2016. Bozo and I went through some tough times together, got married and got divorced in Britney Spears marriage time. I would love nothing more than to blame him completely for breaking my heart but it was my fault just the same. When I got married I got majorly depressed, like to the point where I actually feel bad for this guy for having to deal with me. I look back on it and can tell you I know exactly why it happened. I felt trapped. I didn’t feel trapped because I didn’t love him or I wasn’t head over heels. I felt trapped because I knew any aspirations to travel or move somewhere completely different were done and that is one scary feeling.

This is where I don’t regret a thing. If I didn’t marry him and have the feelings I felt. I would have never done what I’ve done thus far. We split up 2 years ago(almost to the day that I’m writing this) and I am 2 states away from completing my 50 states. My first trip was a month long, only one month later after we split. It was so hard. I cried 50% of it because I was still grieving but it still doesn’t mean I’m not looking back on it right this moment and smiling because it literally was the BEST time of my life.

Moral is: I started traveling not just because of a musician or a documentary on TV. I started traveling because I turned a really crappy feeling into something extraordinary, into something people get inspired about and even a little jealous of.  I hope that for every person out there, even if it’s not traveling, that they turn depression or anxiety as a tool to motivate them and find themselves.

That’s why I started traveling.

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How To Score The Cheapest Flight Possible.

My goal was to do a new blog post every week but if you’ve moved before, you know that moving week is just a big ball of stress and consistently being busy moving useless clutter you’ve accumulated since the last move, but any who, I’m back.

My usual go to and recommendation on travel is, of course, driving but sometimes we don’t have the time to drive cross country 1,000 miles, one way, so the next best thing is flying. If I’ve researched anything more than Britney Spears YouTube videos it’s been how to fly the cheapest way. So here’s my bullet points at being extremely frugal on scoring your next ticket.

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1. Shop on a Tuesday and 6 Weeks in Advance.

This I can 100% attest to, I’ve bought every single flight I’ve ever purchased on a Tuesday, 6 weeks in advance. This is the “sweet spot.”  I’ve flown countless times, round trip, for just $89. I’ve also noticed that Tuesday’s and Wednesdays are the best depart days as well. Usually people that are traveling for leisure or business are not heading out in the middle of the week. (Friday’s are the most expensive day)

2. Shop Around.

Shopping around takes the most time and after a while you just want to put your head in the sand because it’s definitely a lot of numbers, days and sites to keep track of in your brain. There’s about 4 websites I constantly use and bounce between. Kayak.com is probably the most popular, it also has a really neat “explore” option where you can see where the cheapest flight is from your location. My favorite site to use is Cheapoair.com for two reasons. You can mix and match flights. Example: Taking Delta one way to Los Angeles and taking United back home. It also shows you a calendar for flexible days and what would be the cheapest depending on your departing days. I also go straight to the source, I preferably use Frontierairlines.com, I’ve noticed this kind of depends on where you live and where you are going but the cheapest flights I’ve ever gotten have been through Frontier. I also use Cheapair.com, not really a specific rhyme or reason other than I’ve scored some good deals.

3. Browser History And Cookies

CLEAR IT. As much as possible. Let’s say you go to a website, the deal isn’t that great so you decide to come back the next day hoping to see a big price drop. Chances are, it will just increase. Why? Airlines will drop cookies into your browser history to show you are interested in a certain flight, especially if you continuously keep checking back.

4. Check Flights Out Of Different Cities.

If you live in a bigger city or a “hub” then ignore this, however, if you didn’t read my last blog, I live in La Crosse, WI. We have an airport but it usually adds at the very least $200 onto the ticket price VS. just driving(for me) two hours to Minneapolis or Madison. I know this is more inconvenient but the title of this blog isn’t “How to Fly in the Most Convenient Way”

5. Consider Extra Fees

If you’ve EVER flown Spirit, you already know this. When you search for a flight on Kayak.com, Spirit is 99% almost always the cheapest but in retrospect it really isn’t. Let’s paint this picture.

Delta: Free Carry On, Free soda and/or juice, Free Movies, Free Pretzels, More Comfortable Seating.

Spirit: None of the Above and your carry on price is actually MORE than your checked in bag price.

By the time everything is said and done, you are actually paying more than you would be if you just payed that $50 more for a flight with Delta.

6. Sign Up For Alerts.

If you know you want to go to Hawaii next May, then this is perfect for you. I’m an extremely spontaneous traveler so this doesn’t work as well for me. I do go to a different Steeler game in a different stadium every year so I do use alerts for that. Kayak has a price alert option but I prefer to use Airfarewatchdog.com. They email you every time their has been a price drop from your location to Hawaii and when the best time in percentages is to buy.

 

7. Price Refunds

One of my best kept secrets is price refunds. It obviously varies from airline to airline but it’s a trick few people know. Any of the major airlines, such as; Delta, United and American have a 24 hour policy. If you book your flight on a Monday and it goes down on a Tuesday, cancel your flight and rebook. Read the fine print though because sometimes you can get screwed with fees. Airlines like Alaska, Virgin or Southwest is your best bet on refunds. Sites like Yapta.com helps you keep track.

Make sure to check back for more tips and tricks on flights and other cool stuff 🙂

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

How To Travel America On Just $1,000 Dollars.

It’s coming up to be my “1 year anniversary on traveling the country all alone” AND the 4th of July, what better to celebrate it than writing about it and sharing my knowledge. Firstly, this trip I took wasn’t for the faintest of hearts, I did over 4,000 miles on my little black Chevy Cruze, by myself, in uncomfortable situations and really having to get out of my comfort zone.

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1.(and probably the most important): A Kick In The Ass

I say it’s the most important because it took me four whole years to muster up the balls to get up and do this. You can share as many motivational Pinterest quotes on Facebook as you want to but no quote is going to really kick you into a place in your life where you’re actually going to have that epiphany and wake up and say “hey, I’m going to go do this.” Unfortuantely, it’s usually something bad that makes you see that silver lining and for me it was a divorce, not a civilized one either and it really got me thinking on how much in life I hadn’t done but wanted too. I had a couple other “firestarter” motivators. (ex: Kacey Musgraves album and the North America documentary on discovery channel”)

 

2. Plan

The planning part got me kickstarted.  To make this long story short, if you don’t know me, I’m Jaime, I’m from La Crosse, Wisconsin where, well, there’s not much to do other than drink Bud Lights and take shots of Fireball. My first stop from my town of 50,000 was Pittsburgh, PA. I mean, why not? I am a huge Steeler fan and it’s about 11-12 hours away. This stop I planned a couple of weeks prior, I booked an AirBnB.( http://www.airbnb.com/c/jaimea621) things: AirBnB is awesome, if you are doing something like this, I would recommend just the couch options. MUCH cheaper. ALSO, I wish I had known about the App: Couchsurfers sooner. It’s a free app to allow people like myself a place to crash for free for a night. The one other thing I did in advance was to contact ANYONE I knew around the country for a place to stay. This really paved my route for the most part and you really see parts of the country you probably wouldn’t have seen otherwise. To be honest, I was really nervous about this part, I hate asking others for things but it was extremely enlighting on how excited people were that I was coming for a visit. I stayed with everyone from family to my attendance lady from high school.

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3. Don’t Plan

I know, I know. Bullet points 2 &3 are very contridicting, however, like I said planning got me off to kickstart BUT not planning made my eyes wide with excitement with not knowing where I was going to go next. I knew I wanted to go to Maine, that was my #1 destination on the East Coast but to my surprise, you really don’t realize the distance between cities until you are actually in a new one. I would have never ended up in Philly, The Jersey Shore or Boston if I had planned each and every stop. Rememeber when I told you this trip wasn’t for the most faint of hearts? This is one of those times. I knew absolutely zero people on the East Coast but I wasn’t going to bypass it all together, I really had to sleep in my car a lot and I had to choose where I was going to sleep carefully. I felt that truck stops or rest stops under street lights were the best places, I tried hotel parking lots and wal-mart parking lots but just got bad vibes.

 

4. Odd jobs

This part I’m going to be bluntly honest about because, just a secret, I wasn’t always honest getting jobs. I didn’t feel like any place would hire me if I just said I was going to be around for a week or two, so I kinda sorta left that part out when interviewing. Waitressing and bartending jobs are about as easy to find as shotty drivers in New York City.  If you currently don’t have experience in either, start right now! Usually restaurants and bars hire on the spot because they are always in turnover with employees. I also planned, which also decided my route, I looked for festivals that would just need a bartender for the weekend; like Sturgis, EDM and country music festivals. If you haven’t seen the documentary “Craigslist Joe” it’s a much watch. Basically he’s an extremist but some of the ideas are great; look on the Craigslist section of “gigs” AND especially skip the ads of “hot girls wanted”

 

5. Put Your Wallet Away

Also, to be honest, I had one random job the whole trip. I am positive it was because I didn’t spend money on useless things. It’s really hard not to buy a coffee cup for every member of your family but you have to control the urge. The reward? I ate like a Queen. Lobster in Maine, Oysters in Boston and Alligator in Georgia and I always made sure to try the local beer they had on tap. I like trying new food, so if buying souvenirs is your thing instead then go for it! Those $10 coffee cups start adding up though.

 

6. Have A Great Support System

Remember the first bullet point? You need a kick in the ass which means you probably are not in the best place in your life. I left weeks after my ex-husband and I split, their were times I cried all day and wanted to go home. He even got a new girlfriend while I was gone. If I didn’t have friends to tell me to keep going, I would have gone home the first week. I firmly believe you turn into who you hang out with and are influenced by the people surround yourself with. If you have no support, you’re screwed.

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Of course, I have other tips, tricks and hacks for being able to travel as much as I do BUT these are the basics.

Stay Tuned!

 

Jaime